If Visitation/Preoccupation is the warning, Smell the Roses is the answer. This fellow has managed to layer on and pile up the responsibilities he carries about his life. Indeed, he’s probably proud of being fairly buttoned-up, and perhaps, working just a little too hard. Yet, something has suddenly clicked. He’s stashed away his clock where he can’t see it and loosened most of his buttons. He’s managed to pass that magic threshold and realize that we all need to slow down and smell the roses every now and then. Where in this process are you? . . .